I’m Considering Sending a Sexy Picture of Myself to a Guy That I Like

Dear Chick-E,

I am considering sending a sexy picture of myself to a guy that I like. I’m trying to get his attention and get him to notice me. What do you think?

Invisible But Worth Seeing

Dear Invisible,

What do I think? I think…NO!! NO!! NO!! Don’t do it. It may seem like a silly or fun thing, but if you think a guy – any guy – is going to keep that to himself, you are WRONG! Whether he does it to show off, to make fun of you, or if one of his buddies is going through his phone and finds it, he WILL NOT be the only one to see it. Have respect for yourself. If this isn’t something you would do face-to-face, DO NOT do it over e-mail, texting, Facebook, etc. It will become an embarrassing situation for you and you cannot take it back.

Chick-E

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Ask Chick-E: My Boyfriend Cheated On Me

Dear Chick-E,

My boyfriend cheated on me.  He says he wants me back, that it was a mistake and he’ll never do it again.  I want to trust him, but I don’t know what to do!

Answer:

You need to take a little time for yourself and think, without anyone talking in your ear.  Take time to think about how it made you feel and are you willing to let him do that to you again?  I would suggest you get together with your best girlfriend(s) and have a break up party.  Play great break up music (such as Taylor Swift’s, You Should Have Said No) and take time to cry and take time to get over it.  Then move on and find someone who can see the amazing person you are.  This guy is not for you.

Chick-E

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Ask Chick-E: Oral Sex

Dear Chick-E,

The guys at my school say oral sex isn’t really sex.  Is that true?

Orally Confused

Dear Orally Confused,

No, that is not true and do not let them pressure you into it.  It is a form of sex and you can pick up a disease from it.  If guys are pressuring you and your friends, stay away from them.  They do not respect you and you need to realize how amazing you are and you deserve someone who can see that too.

Chick-E

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My Boyfriend Is Pressuring Me For Sex

Question:

Dear Chick-E,

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and he has started pressuring me for sex.  I don’t think I’m ready and I don’t know what to do.  I don’t want to lose him.

Answer:

I don’t know how old you are, but no matter what age, a guy should NEVER be pressuring a girl for sex.  If you aren’t ready, wait.  There’s not specific age, but I’d rather you wait until you are 18, or later.  I may not seem like a big thing, but there are repercussions for your actions.  If you aren’t ready to take care of a baby, don’t do it.  Most importantly, if I guy isn’t willing to wait, he doesn’t really care about you.  That may not be what you want to hear, but it really is true.  Remember, when and if you decide you are ready, I can’t stress enough the need for protection.  If I guy suggests doing it without protection, run the other way!

Chick-E

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My Daughter Won't Hand In Her Homework

Dear Chick-E,

My daughter doesn’t hand in her homework – she does her homework, but doesn’t hand it in?  Any thoughts on why and how to get her to do it?

Hopelessly Frustrated

Dear Hopelessly Frustrated,

If you have tried the usual punishments of taking stuff away and that hasn’t worked, maybe sit down and talk to her.  It could be her way of trying to get attention.  See if there is anything bigger bothering her.  Last resort, take her to school every day and go to each of her teacher’s classrooms, with her, and make sure she hands in her homework.  Don’t say anything other than “hello” to the teachers, don’t try to explain, just be there.  Pretty soon she’ll be so happy just to hand in her homework, so you won’t be there.

Chick-E

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My Friend Kissed My Ex-Boyfriend

Question:

Dear Chick-E,

One of my friends kissed my ex-boyfriend.  I’m really mad at her and think she’s a skank.  I’m not friends with her anymore.  Doesn’t she know about the girl code?

Answer:

Okay, admittedly that wasn’t cool, but sometimes life is messy.  If she tries to explain, listen to her answer and then decide.  Everyone comes with their own special baggage.  Remember that friends are more important than guys.  Guys come and go, but your friends might be with you forever.  Be mature about it and let her know what you think about what she did and then decide if she’s worth keeping as a friend or not.

Chick-E

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Dealing With The Loss Of A Pet

Queston:

Dear Chick-E

My cat just died and I’m really sad.  I know he was old and it probably was time, but I grew up with him and feel like there is a part missing from my life.  I can’t stop crying, how can I feel better?

Meow-less

Answer:

Dear Meow-less,

I know it’s hard when you lose a pet.  They become such big parts of our family and our lives and they leave such a big hole behind.  You obviously loved your cat and miss him terribly.   It’s okay to miss him and it’s okay to cry.  Take peace in the fact that you gave him a good life, a good home and lots of love.   It’s one of those aspects of life that we all know, but it never gets easier.  Take comfort knowing in time you will feel better.  You won’t forget him and he will live on in your heart and your memories.  After you have taken some time to heal, maybe you will be ready to share your life with another cat that needs a good home.  He would want you to be happy.

I hope you feel better Meow-Less!

Chick-E

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How to Talk to Guys

I’m kind of shy and awkward around guys.  How can I start a conversation with them?

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That is a very good question and you are not alone.

1.  Find Common Ground

If you go to school together or have classes together, start a conversation about that.  For example, “I heard it was a great win against Central last week!”  Or, “Is that biology assignment breaking your back too?”

2.  Look for Clues to Give You an Idea of His Interests

If you don’t know him and want to start a conversation, take a close look at what he is wearing and see if you can pick up any clues from that.  Such as, is he wearing a baseball cap with a logo of a football team.  You can say, “How ‘bout them Bears?”

3.  Wing It!

If you can’t pick up any clues whatsoever, then just go up to him and say “Hi”.  Or, ask for directions.  For example, if you are at the mall, say “Excuse me, but do you know where the Food Court is?”(just make sure you aren’t standing right in front of it when you ask).

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